When you have someone to share time with, its value is maximized

Time, a bundle up our sleeve that we all possess, invaluable, of incalculable value, is in our conscience and in our level of reasoning how to invest it, spend it or, failing that, waste it. Valuing is the action that is great for many people, an action that life as a teacher will teach us throughout the cycles of our passage through this world, many in the form of lessons that will not only make us understand, lessons that will be painful will have a tint of sadness and pain that will remain recorded for the rest of life, perhaps the feelings that cloud the lessons are the ones that mainly will not make us forget them, given that when we learn through the blows that life gives us to strengthen us, clearly no lesson or test of life is forgotten.

Our perception and beliefs about time are subjective, although there is clearly a definition that standardizes it as "The limiting period in which relevant facts or events occur both for history and for us" on the other hand the word TIME has several connotations not only It is used to refer to the periods of our life or, failing that, of history, it is also used to refer to the climate, but now this article clearly has the tinge of referring to the periods we are going through or we already did or in a We will do it in the future, obviously if we are still alive. Going back to the aforementioned point, we all have a different belief about time since we have all been brought up with different belief systems, so if we take the time to inquire clearly we will see that our thoughts about it depend on what our parents taught us with regarding time.

In the world there are many exceptions given that they can generalize a belief and one of them is time, given that they instill in us that we have all the time in the world, when reality is supremely different given that each day is one less, the time is short, time literally is gold that we have in our possession and thanks to it we can promote our goals, clearly because those who do not have time then go to another plane, although we do not have to label many are those who made their life their greatest dream , obviously because in one way or another they fulfilled what their hearts dictated, but time not only serves as an engine to raise our goals, time is much more than a treasure since we can enjoy it and share it with our family, with our loved ones, where life begins and love never ends and much less is needed.

Quality over time is defined by you as well as quality over the years, you are the captain and the designer of your destiny and life, therefore take the reins even if it is an action that scares many, we must fill ourselves with strength to undertake that great mission of life that will make it memorable and maximize it to another level, when we understand that the material does not matter, nor does it matter as much as the love of a mother or our family, we will have found the meaning that overwhelms life. From a very young age I learned the value that my family gave to my life, the value of the presence of those beings who have given more for me than they themselves had, and all with the aim of making me a girl and later a woman who had infinite possibilities, even those that they did not have due to the deficiencies that they suffered, that is why my mother has always been and will be the fundamental pillar of my life, although she understands and understands that not all moments are pleasant or rosy, but that Even so, it is the relationship that has shown me the greatest loyalty and unconditional love in the world.

Losses over time come with the function of teaching us to value what we have in the present, not to live with yearnings that are not yet palpable, to live always clinging to what accompanies us today and not just clinging, to live eternally grateful because a part of their life will always be ours, given that they have dedicated time to share and be companions of our life in stages where we have been at the top of the peak as well as starting the mountain and even when it fluctuated. The absence and saying goodbye to loved ones who were called to another dimension, make us automatically change our vision about valuing and above all about time, my grandmother, may she rest in peace, taught me with her unexpected departure that we must be precursors in love, in the actions that make us show to all those who turn on that great engine in our lives how important and loved they are, as well as clearly supported by us.

Today we are and tomorrow we are not, I am going to share a personal story that did not happen to me directly but to a friend, as you know the situation in Venezuela is very critical, not to give her another more deplorable label, this friend was fighting for her life, for winning time over time as they say colloquially, given that due to medical negligence in an operation that had been performed on him a few years ago and that he currently discovered a couple of years ago, just when the pandemic was starting and evidently the public hospitals here were closing due to the virus, unfortunately she was left on a waiting list, until recently about a month ago she was still waiting for her surgery to clearly return to enjoying full health, what neither she nor I knew was that in the course of the last few days it would get worse, leading to emergency surgery but unfortunately it was too late he died, the conclusion is clearly that time is not under n Our control, time escapes us, therefore enjoying, balancing and making our own rules of life is essential, following imposed paradigms only limits us and distances us from happiness and obviously the health system and other systems in my country they don't work as they should.

What do you think about time, as you define it?!

Thank you for reading!

por mi Milagros Ramirez y publicado originalmente en https://read.cash/@milaagrosramirez/when-you-have-someone-to-share-time-with-its-value-is-maximized-54c87db7